diff --git a/game-server/app/servers/role/handler/friendHandler.ts b/game-server/app/servers/role/handler/friendHandler.ts
index 39ea821a2..7a60baffc 100644
--- a/game-server/app/servers/role/handler/friendHandler.ts
+++ b/game-server/app/servers/role/handler/friendHandler.ts
@@ -355,7 +355,13 @@ export class FriendHandler {
             if(hisRecApplyCount > 0) await RoleModel.increaseFriendApplyCnt(roleId, -1 * hisRecApplyCount, FRIEND.FRIEND_MANAGE_APPLICATION);
 
             let param = new BlackListParam(friend);
-            let isOnline = await isRoleOnline(friend.roleId);
+            let { isOnline, sid } = await getRoleOnlineInfo(friend.roleId);
+
+            if(isOnline && (!!curFriend || myRecApplyCount > 0 || hisRecApplyCount > 0)) { // 当你们双方为好友，或者你申请过她的好友，拉黑的时候通知一下他删列表
+                await sendMessageToUserWithSuc(friend.roleId, PUSH_ROUTE.SET_BLACK, { blackRoleIds: [roleId] }, sid);
+            }
+
+
             param.setOnline(isOnline);
 
             let { serverId } = friend;
diff --git a/shared/consts/constModules/chatConst.ts b/shared/consts/constModules/chatConst.ts
index c53b8308d..c467db704 100644
--- a/shared/consts/constModules/chatConst.ts
+++ b/shared/consts/constModules/chatConst.ts
@@ -132,6 +132,7 @@ export const PUSH_ROUTE = {
     WISH_GOODS_RECEIVE: 'onWishGoodsRecive',
     FRIEND_APPLY: 'onFriendApply',
     FRIEND_SEND_HEART: 'onFriendSendHeart',
+    SET_BLACK: 'onSetBlack',
     PLAY_TIME: 'onPlayTime',
     DAILY_TASK_REFRESH: 'onDailyTaskRefresh',
     AP_UPDATE: 'onApUpdate',